Crystals for a Heartbreak or Breakups

"This too shall pass. It might pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass."
- Anonymous

So it happened. It's over. And while part of you is relieved (or so you're telling your not-so-close friends and anyone who might tell him or her), there is a big part (maybe the biggest part) of you that is sad, fearful, devastated, confused, obsessed, annoyed, and all kinds of pissed off.

Breaking up is hard to do. And so is changing the routines of your life, the thoughts in your head, the energy of your body, and your heart. But to provide support to you through every phase of the post breakup process, we've got a crystal for that! Tuning into the healing properties of crystals during a breakup can help you survive and yes, even thrive after a devastating conscious or not so conscious uncoupling.

No matter the case, there is hope. Eventually the pain will stop and you will find peace. We promise. We're always rooting for you!

Supportive Crystals for all the phases of a heartbreak or breakup.

Crystals For healing the heart

To address issues of the heart's vibration we look at crystals in the color of the Heart Chakra, which are green (and weirdly pink).


Green Aventurine is a healer at its core and one of the MOST powerful heart healers around. It activates physical, spiritual and emotional healing.


Prehnite helps you walk through fear and anxiety that can arise after a breakup while nurturing your heart and making space for peace.


Green Onyx is considered a bereavement stone and is the perfect soother to comfort and heal a broken heart after a great loss.


And of course, Rose Quartz is the stone of unconditional love—love for yourself so you can move forward and find peace inside.

After tending to your Heart there are lots of other emotions that can be addressed and helped.

Crystals For Anger & Confusion

Experiencing anger or confusion after your breakup? 


Selenite is an amazing deep cleanser for your energy blockages, pulling out all types of negativity—from anger to sadness to fear. Then it heals by filling all that new empty space with pure, white light.


Botswana Agate is an excellent stone for rebalancing and harmonizing body, mind, and spirit. It cleanses and stabilizes the aura, eliminating and transforming negativity. Also, it enhances mental function, improving concentration, perception, and analytical abilities. And finally Botswana Agate soothes and calms, healing inner anger or tension and creates a sense of security and safety.


Black Onyx is a master stress reliever, clearing out negativity, worry, anger, and sadness. It fills up the empty space with light, love, positivity, and vitality.


Use Lapis Lazuli if you're confused. It's our Queen stone and helps you to see things more clearly, discern what to do next, and empowers you so you understand your value and worth.

Speaking of value and worth....

Crystals for Self Worth & Value

Feeling obsessed? It's understandable. It's difficult to heal when your energies are focused outside yourself. Go inward. Then lean into crystals that will empower you so YOU feel great about yourself and are ready to move on.


Sunstone is a powerful stone that facilitates independence, self worth, and confidence. It also clears and energizes all the chakras. It instills good nature, heightens intuition, and allows the real self to shine through happily. Finally, it dissipates fearfulness, alleviates stress, and increases vitality.


Sodalite enhances self-esteem, self-acceptance, and self-trust. Additionally it helps facilitate an understanding of what is necessary for one's spiritual evolution.


Blue Lace Agate activates confidence and unwavering intent. And it's a very cooling and calming stone, providing strength, peace, and tranquility.


Aqua Chalcedony is also a calming stone that amplifies peace, love, inspiration, and compassion for all. It helps you carry and be the light, grounded in your own Alchemy, transforming darkness, and shining a light for yourself and others.

Crystals to help forgive and move on

Ready to forgive and/or move on?


Moonstone is infused with love and is a touchstone of comfort, celebration, empathy, forgiveness, humor, affection, generosity, and love. Perfect for connecting with yourself and allowing others to be exactly who they are.


Rhodonite encourages self-love and forgiveness. It's a stone of compassion and an emotional balancer that clears away past emotional wounds. It stimulates, clears, and activates the heart, while grounding energy, balances yin-yang, and aids in achieving one’s highest potential. Ultimately Rhodonite encourages unselfish self-love and forgiveness.


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